Thursday, August 12, 2010

Heartbreaks

This matter got me thinking. You know how they show dramas, and there's this couple in it? For some sort of reason the couple breaks up. The guy walks off and leaves the girl crying.
In the really dramatic ones, the girl attempts suicide.
In most, she fails, gets pulled back to life, and wakes up in the hospital. In a few, she dies. But that's besides the point.
These kind of things happen in real life too. Whether it's because she's too upset, or it's because she's just trying to gain sympathy or attention.
Whatever. The idea is just plain stupid.
I don't mean this from a person who never went through a heartbreak before. But before you go so far as to take your life, you might want to slow down and think about it a little bit first.
Like the, 'I found my prince charming but he dumped me.'
The thing is, prince charmings don't dump their princesses. If the guy does dump the girl then its because he is not prince charming. The prince charming is suppose to love the girl, even though she might be ugly or bitchy or just annoying. Their definition is to 'love you no matter what'.
After coming to the conclusion that he is not Mr Right, you will miraculously realise that he is in fact, Mr Wrong.
And now we may proceed to the 'He dumped me so let me kill myself' part.
Kill yourself over Mr Wrong?
The fuck? How many lives do you have? If you do the math then it's just one. And you go and waste your only life on a Mr Wrong?
That is just so, so wrong.
So much so that its stupid. I mean really. What's the point of killing yourself over someone who isn't worth it? That's just plain stupid. It's like paying money for something you won't be getting. The idea just doesn't make any sense, and that's because it's stupid. Throwing your life over Mr Right sounds more sane. (The only way I can see that happening is because Mr Right died, leaving Mrs Right all alone, because Mr Rights don't make you feel like killing yourself.)
But maybe, the reason those suicide cases happen is because people who are in love are just delusional, falling in love with the wrong people in the first place, and then subsequently killing yourself.
If aliens really landed on earth, they would probably look at us and think, weird.
And they would be right.

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